Why I Started Rooted in Deen

Assalamu Alaikum,

My name is Nadia. I am a wife, a mother, and a Muslim woman living in Alberta, Canada. But before any of those things, I was a little girl growing up in Burundi, trying to make sense of faith, life, and my place in the world.

I was born and raised in a Muslim family, but like many families, Islam was more of an identity than a complete way of life. My parents valued education deeply and worked hard to provide us with opportunities. We attended Quran classes, but faith did not shape every decision or every aspect of daily life.

When I was eleven years old, I earned a place at a Catholic girls’ boarding school. There, I met a group of older Muslim sisters who welcomed me, guided me, and helped me stay connected to my deen. They became role models during some of the most important years of my life.

By the time I reached my final year of high school, I had become one of the senior Muslim students. The younger girls looked up to me and eventually asked me to lead the Muslim Students Association. While they saw someone knowledgeable and disciplined, I knew there was a struggle hidden beneath the surface.

Over the years, I had neglected my Quran studies. I had stopped attending classes during school breaks and slowly fell behind. One night, after a student became ill and the girls asked me to lead a ruqyah session, I was handed a mushaf and asked to read. I could barely do it.

I still remember the embarrassment and disappointment I felt in that moment. It forced me to confront a reality I had been avoiding: I had neglected something that should have been a priority in my life.

After high school, I attended university, started wearing hijab, and remained committed to my prayers. Although I was not living a particularly Islamic lifestyle, I held onto the foundations of faith and tried my best to maintain them.

At twenty-three years old, I received an opportunity to move to Canada. Like many immigrants, I arrived carrying dreams, responsibilities, and the hopes of my family. I wanted to build a better future, support my loved ones, and make the most of the opportunities available to me.

The transition was not always easy.

As I adapted to a new culture and environment, I slowly noticed changes in myself. Some were subtle. Others were not. My clothing became less modest, my hijab became more of an accessory than a commitment, and I found myself becoming increasingly disconnected from the values I once wanted to uphold.

I was not abandoning Islam, but I was drifting.

Over time, I built a career, got married, and became a mother. Motherhood changed me in ways I never expected. Suddenly, success looked different. My priorities shifted. I no longer measured my life only by career goals and financial stability. I wanted to become the kind of mother who could nurture not only her children’s needs, but also their faith.

Yet balancing everything was difficult.

I worked long shifts, spent countless hours away from home, and often felt exhausted, overwhelmed, and disconnected from the life I truly wanted to build. I constantly searched for solutions, opportunities, and ways out of situations that seemed impossible to change.

Then, during my second pregnancy, everything stopped.

Severe sickness forced me away from work, and for the first time in many years, I had the opportunity to slow down.

What initially felt like a setback became one of the greatest blessings Allah had given me.

During that season, I returned to the Quran. I learned tajweed. I began memorizing again. I spent more time with my son. I watched our relationship grow stronger. I started listening to lectures, reading Islamic books, and seeking knowledge more intentionally than ever before.

The more I learned, the more I realized how little I truly knew about my faith.

I began to see how Islam provides guidance for every aspect of life—our relationships, our families, our finances, our struggles, our goals, and even the challenges we face in everyday living.

I also realized that many Muslim women were struggling with the same questions I had wrestled with for years.

How do we stay connected to Allah while managing work, motherhood, marriage, and responsibilities?

How do we raise children with strong Islamic values when we ourselves are still learning?

How do we build meaningful lives without becoming consumed by the constant busyness of the world?

Those questions became the seeds of Rooted in Deen.

The name itself reflects what I have learned throughout my journey.

A tree can only flourish when its roots are strong. In the same way, every part of our lives becomes stronger when it is rooted in faith. Our homes, our marriages, our parenting, our ambitions, and our personal growth all benefit when they are grounded in the guidance of Allah.

Rooted in Deen was created to be a place of encouragement, reflection, and practical reminders for Muslim women who are trying to navigate modern life without losing sight of what matters most.

I am not a scholar. I am simply a Muslim woman still learning, still growing, and still striving.

If my experiences can help another woman feel less alone, reconnect with her faith, strengthen her family, or take one small step closer to Allah, then this space has fulfilled its purpose.

I pray that Rooted in Deen becomes a source of benefit for you, your family, and everyone who visits.

May Allah keep us firm, guide us toward what pleases Him, and allow us to remain rooted in deen no matter what season of life we find ourselves in.

Ameen.